My DD,just finished Yr1, had confidence issues on starting Year 1. I went from considering a tutor, to her starting swimming lessons just to help boost her confidence. I stopped doing anything academic with her at home,even staying off Mumsnet(so I do not have any expectations),so she doesn't feel the pressure to perform or feel that's how to please me.
I really want her to grow up confident and happy irrespective of her academic success.
I feel she never 'connected' with her teacher in Year 1. I really liked this teacher, but now feel she hasn't been 'good' for my dd. My dd said, 'she never notices when I do something right'.
We have been working on dd's confidence from the beginning of the term, but in the last Parents' evening, she told me dd shuts down when she has made a mistake and panicks(sp) so much that she forgets the very basic things that she knows already. Of course, I panicked at that! I just cannot see any progress in Year 1,whether academic or emotional? And she is in the top group in her class??? Scary!!!
Thinking of changing school because it seems parents aren't really heard unless the situation is really really really apparent to them? I have no idea. Teacher told me she was considering having a counsellor see my daughter next term.so obviously she thinks it is serious,but then says she finds dd's shutting down 'annoying'. I understand how it can be annoying but then wondered if that wasn't part of the problem if dd feels she is being blamed.
I know a teacher's job is hard,plus they have got at least 20kids, but I do not want this to continue for my dd. She was bullied in her group and inthe school and nothing really was ever done. I approached school, but got nothing. I am so fed up of going in to say the 'obvious' to them and getting nothing.
Now she is going into Yr 2 and the new teacher has a reputation that frightens me,especially with dd's low confidence.
I am thinking now that a totally different learning environment might do her a world of good...
Please advise
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Should I change DD's school? Nothing seems to be 'happening' for her...
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Sammiez · 23/07/2011 16:11
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