We are having a major problem deciding on a school for our dds. DD1 was in our local school,but in year one had big problems settling and she became more and more unhappy until she was like a different child.She lost all her previous confidence and became hyper anxious and miserable.We took her out at Christmas and have been home schooling.She took a few months to get back to something approaching her old self,but she is still less confident and more vulnerable than she was.We could continue to Home-ed,but I think she would enjoy school if her experience was different,she's always been very friendly and sociable and I can tell she missed being part of a group. We have a younger DD who could start with her,in reception.She hasn't been to school or nursery yet (she is 4).
We have narrowed it down to two schools, school A is good/outstanding,i really liked the head and the whole atmosphere of the school,but it is 25 minutes drive away. It also feeds into either an English medium high school which is reasonable,or a Welsh medium high school which is not so good.
School B is half the size of school A and is a kind and nurturing school,it is closer, about 10 minutes drive away, it is entirely welsh speaking and feeds into the really excellent "outstanding" welsh language high school. However the head is more of a sticking to the rules less flexible type of person,and so DD would have to start full time straight away,rather than being able to get her back in gradually and also DD2 would too have to be full time right away,which seems rather brutal,we've never had a babysitter even. We are at a loss which one to choose! All advice very gratefully taken on as my head is exploding...
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hellymelly · 12/07/2011 21:05
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