Today my DD came home and sobbed for an hour, proper hiccuping, tear filled sobs, all because she is no longer the "best reader in the class".
It has happened that reading has come quite easily to DD. She only started Reception in January (that is when they start summer born children in our area) and she quickly picked up the basics and started moving up the reading levels. Each time she moved up she was the first in the class to do so. She is currently on level 7 and only one other child is on that level with her, then today that child moved to level 8 and DD didn't - hence the sobbing.
I have no idea why she thinks this matters. We have never made a big deal about reading levels and certainly not about her being "the best". I tell her I am proud of her when she moves up a level but that is it. I have never told her I am proud of her for being the first on a level or compared her progress with that of other kids.
How should I deal with her reaction and get her to understand it does not matter who is on what level as long as she is trying her best? This message needs to get through before year one or she will have an awful shock ( in our area the summer born children are in a different class to the winter borns and then at the end of Reception they mix the classes. I know the other class is stronger at reading as they are older and have had a term more schooling - so DD will have little chance of being at the top of the class next year).
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Reception aged child obsessed with being the best at reading. V worried.
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boxofbugs · 24/06/2011 23:11
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