Hi there,
I posted this under another topic, but it's mainly school-based, and I'm still concerned, so here goes...
Dd, 6, is being dominated by 'friend' X at school. I had the opportunity recently to see how dd & X interact together, as I was at a party where both of them were, and I was pretty upset by what I saw. X spent most of the party touching dd - putting arms round her, grabbing her and not letting go if she tried to partner another friend, and sometimes staring at her right up into her face. Dd kept trying to stop X from putting an arm round her - X took absolutely no notice, and would not stop when asked by other adults at the party.
So, dd & X are in the same class, and after the party, I went in to see their teacher to find out if this is going on at school & how it's being dealt with. Teacher quite reassuring - v aware of situation, keeps them apart in class, never in same reading groups etc. However, from questioning dd, she plays every day with X at playtime, more from compulsion than because she wants to. She said that if she wants to play with someone else she asks X, and X either 'won't let her' or follows her & they have to play with another friends together.
Not really sure what to do next. I'm really unhappy about the friendship because its based on X being completely dominant and possessive over dd. But what can I do? Can I expect teachers to get involved with playground friendships? Any advice most welcome
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How much can teachers get involved in playground friendships?
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solongandthanksfor · 17/11/2010 20:08
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