This is not a huge problem, but I would appreciate any insights of experiences others have had.
My son has been very close to another boy for the past year or so. They used to be in different school nurseries, but would play for a couple of afternoons a week and have tea together.
They both started school this year and are now in the same class and obviously they are now together most of the day.
Recently, my son has been upset at the end of the school day over problems with his friend.
The main problem seems to be that the friend wants to play a game with my son, but doesn't want any of the other children to play.
My son wants to play with his best friend and the other children and is finding the situation stressful. Tonight he asked me if I could move him to another school.
He is a friendly boy and quite easy-going with other children, whereas his friend is more 'fixed' when it comes to playing and has quite certain ideas about what he wants to play and can be inflexible.
It sounds to me as if the friend is being possessive over my son and this is actually driving them apart.
My instinct is to talk to the friend's mother and talk to both boys explaining the problem to them and encouraging them to resolve things.
I would love to hear how others have handled this type of situation.
I sometimes do a role play with my son so that he can 'practice' saying what he wants to say in a safe environment.
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Problem with friend of 6 year old DS
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rowingboat · 12/11/2010 23:31
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12/11/2010 23:36
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