He's tried 3 or 4 things but always decides that's he's not enjoying it, so apart from one night a week when he goes to sea scouts, it's home to the garden/his room/the tv. He does lack confidence which is why partly why I've pushed him to join things (things he's expressed an interest in, not random activities). Perhaps I'm also being a bit selfish as he's very mentally active and talkative and by his bedtime I'm exhausted.
In the long term, does it matter? I'm getting myself and him stressed because I keep thinking all the other children are having active lives & learning new skills and he's just bobbing along. That said, if I'm not careful I'll put him off things that he probably will want to do when he's a bit older.
Our house is quite a distance from the school so we can't invite friends back, but we do stay in the playground so he can run around, and he's happy to go to the park or library on the way home.
Any ideas? I'm not a pushy parent by any means, rather someone who's always been a bit of a loner and doesn't want ds to end up the same way, but trying too hard!
ps I have another child who is a 'joiner in' and would happily do several things a week, which adds to my guilt because I feel like I should be treating both exactly the same.
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ds (8) doesn't want to do after school activities. Why am I getting so stressed about this?
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TheEarthIsFlat · 21/09/2010 22:10
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