My dd (aged 6) has just finished Year 1. She's in a small, independent school which only goes up to the end of Year 2 following which she will need to go to another school, depending on how she does with entrance exams which she will be sitting in January next year.
Our dilemma is that there are two schools which most of the girls seem to go to (or apply to). One is a highly academic girl's school with a reputation for producing very high results and being one of the "top" schools in the country. The second is a very good school which appears to be slightly less academic, more pastoral care and more focussed on sport.
We always said that we would be guided by her current school as we feel they know her very well but to our total suprise, they have recommended that she apply for both and that she stands a good chance of getting into the top one. However, in order to do this, she would have to have some extra tuition in spelling and writing. They tested her at length and as she is age 6 yrs 3 months at the time of the tests and she apparently scored reading age 8.2, maths age 8.4, writing 7.6 and spelling 7.4. Apparently the writing and reading needs to be up in the 8 years plus and they feel she can achieve this between now and January if we give her some extra help.
OK, I realise that the above sounds ludicrous - surely she doesn't "need" to be any higher than she is and what she's achieving is fantastic but on the other hand by dh feels that it would be a huge mistake for us NOT to at least give her the opportunity to get into this school as he feels it's a "once in a lifetime" opportunity.
I have a feeling we will be shot down in flames asking this, but seriously, what would you do given this situation? I'm having sleepless nights about this. She seesm totally unfazed by the workload she's been given (so young!) and loves her school so whilst I know she's been hot-housed, I feel she's loving it.
Any thoughts appreciated...
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highfive · 24/07/2010 11:35
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