DS is a Summer born child in Year 1. He doesn't seem to have any particular friends and is often left out with party invites from the group he likes. So I have invited a few different friends round to play (having taken advice from previous threads on here).
The friends he has picked to come round have all been really high maintenance and the playtime has not been fun at all. They have needed constant monitoring and I have ended up telling them off constantly, and refereeing disputes. DS is no angel, and on the 'playdates' (for want of a better word) has also behaved very differently from usual.
I am just wondering after the third disasterous playdate if I am expecting too much for their behaviour, and if this is normal for (excited) 6 year olds?
Some of the things they have done:
closed DH's work on the computer in order to find games to play without even asking if could use computer
left the house without asking to go down the road to see another child from school
jumped off the beds
thrown sand at younger DC
sworn (f word)
refused to even sit at the table with us for supper despite dictating what we will eat
teasing the dog despite repeated asking them not too
ignored me completely
I just find myself thinking I don't want DS to behave like this, and if this is normal for his peer group then do I want him to fit in with that peer group, or is he in the wrong school setting? Or am I being overly precious about some still very young boys, and will find the same sort of thing in any school?
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Parents of Year 1 children - can you tell me what their behaviour is like?
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ksld · 16/07/2010 14:32
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