My 12yr old DS came home yesterday telling me (not asking, telling!) that he was going to go to a Halloween party of a girl from his yr at school - they're in Yr 8. This family always go all out for Halloween - decorating the garden and having a party and he's managed to wangle an invite through a closer friend of hers. No problem with him going - it'll no doubt be great, but he seemed to assume that he could stay there till 11-12.00 which I was a bit surprised by. Told him that I suspected it might finish earlier than that
Then, in the next breath, he's saying he wants to go to a friend's house for a sleepover this weekend and wants to "do an all nighter" eg. stay up all night. This is a boy who really needs his sleep - he's absolutely vile and awful when tired. I said he could go Friday, but he needs to be ok for tennis and rowing commitments on Sat so wouldn't want him even trying to stay up all night!
Apparently, for these comments, I am the strictest parent ever, waaaay stricter than his friends' parents. I do know at least two of his friends do think it's ok / normal to stay up all night at a sleepover so suspect he's not lying about this.
But is this being overly strict? I'm not saying I'd expect him to be tucked up and asleep by 10pm but neither do I want him staying up all night or attempting to do so and being fit for nothing the rest of the weekend!
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Dotty342kids · 07/10/2015 13:12
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