I need help. Advice. Something.
My son just turned 11. It's the school holidays and I feel like I have a different child living here that I just don't know at all.
I do know he is anxious about secondary school. He also seems to feel a lot of social pressure to be on social media. We allow Instagram on condition I have access to his account and that he does not have his phone in his bedroom at night.
This is the trigger. He fights back about leaving his phone downstairs at night. He has Been nagging for months to have his own bedroom. He previously shared with ds2 age 7.5. It was not working. Lots of fights etc. so we split them up. And now ds1 won't go to bed. When I say won't I mean refusing, lashing out, running away, slamming doors, shoving furniture, shouting etc. another trigger. The behaviour is getting worse every night.
We warn him the consequence of his actions. We try to be consistent and follow through on threats. Last night peaked with him slapping me.
I don't know what to do.
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tiredteddy · 03/08/2015 11:14
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