Dd10 yr 6 has just come in upset, she'd asked why her pals don't call on her when they play out. She can be a bit insecure but this came about after walking the dog yesterday and passed a bunch of them playing out along the street.
She was told by one friend that she always mentions calling but the others say no because she's annoying.
Cue lots of "this always happens ,I'm always on the edge of the group the friend they always laugh at".
She had a best friend that was not there tonight but who causes loads of issues but according to Dd is very popular and she always compares herself unfavorably to her and apparently she'd also said she was annoying.
I try to suggest things but get shot down but it's so hard to watch her hurting.
We've had lots of tears over things the best friend says and does and how she perceives that they are treated differently amongst her peers. How do you help, toughen your children up? Does she need to toughen up? She does have other friends and I've suggested inviting them over but they don't "play"! So I've retreated to the living room for now!
So,any ideas gratefully received to help me survive the next few years
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Hoolit · 23/04/2015 20:04
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