I don't know why this has got to me so much and I probably should Mind My Own Beezwax and Let Her Get On With It. After two years of an utterly charming friendship with a girl in her class who lives down the road, DD (11) has unceremoniously and without explanation dropped her and gone off with a clique of girls who, although perfectly nice, are a little more worldly and seem to be rubbing the former best friend's nose in it. Her mother is very upset and says she's crying every night. DD becomes very angry and defensive whenever I ask her to think about how her former best friend must feel about it. She's taken down photos of her and put away birthday and christmas presents. There are daily rows in the playground and divisions occurring around who sides with DD and who sides with the other girl. I'm worried that DD might have a tendency to be unreliable and easily swayed ... OK when they are pre-teen and the interests do not extend beyond nail polish and Claires Accessories, but she starts high school in September, where issues are more complex and potentially dangerous. Should I keep well out of it and hope it settles down? I'm so worried about the other girl and, frankly, I miss her and can see that she and her mum are very hurt.
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