Hi all from a newbie. I'm 47 and will be 48 when our baby is born IF all goes well. I am thrilled at finding myself expecting again,my youngest is now 10, but there are so many risks at this age I am finding it very hard to relax. Because I may have to face the decision to terminate I still haven't told anyone, no-one knows about the pregnancy only the father of course. But I am so scared. Baby is at 10 weeks, we saw him/her at the a scan last week, kicking and full of life. 2 fibroids were detected too but I am not going to worry about those. Am booked to have a nuchal scan in the next 2 weeks but I don't know how I'm going to cope if the news is bad. An Amnio is going to give the true situation one way or another soooo late, around 18 weeks I think which is so late to go through a termination. I'm at a risk of 1 in 20 for Down's plus all the other age related disorders. I can't sleep and am having nightmares. I know I can't bring a disabled baby into the family. Sorry to be such a downer but I suppose because I have bottled this up it is worse.
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Mum again at 47 and scared at all the risks!!
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Trekkiemaiden · 05/03/2010 20:53
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