Hi everyone, hope you are all well. 8 weeks in yaay - I was so happy last week but I had a really really naff weekend - we (other half and I) had arguments all weekend after he made a comment about me already looking 9 months after I showed him a picture in a book ! (I'm overweight) which really upset me - this was after I had been to get my first maternity bra and the women who fitted me up couldn't believe I was only 8 weeks and made huffing noises - all because I am overweight (always have been) but I did a 56 mile bike ride last year and the race for life and I'm healthy so why are people so cruel and think you have no feelings or am I being too sensitive and need to grow an extra 3 layers of skin?!?! I don't want to be stressed as I don't want my little splodge to feel it but it really hacks me off !!! I am watching what I eat and going to the gym and yes the weight issue did concern me at first (read up on the complications) but I feel stigmatized and now I am dreading whats going to come (comments etc) when I get bigger :-(( I thought my DP was being an insensitive p*k especially as I am coming off the anti depressants since finding out I'm pregnant and was feeling so happy and thought I was doing well, he now keeps telling me that I need to be on them as he doesn't think I can cope and he expects me to get PND - ARGHGHGHHHH !!! Things got so bad between us in the space of 24hours that I stopped at my bro's house and had to involve my folks who now think I should get shut of him ....sorry to go on but had to get this out my system
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Am I being too sensitive ?!!? GRRRRR ... Being overweight and pregnant
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Yimmy · 10/09/2007 16:14
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