I enjoy my job a lot (teacher) and have just gone in ML expecting my first baby soon.
I am not the greatest with change and because I'm so used to my whole identity and joy being wrapped up in my job, I feel like my life is very barren and unfamiliar without it.
I suppose it's like anything, I need to make the effort to meet up with friends for coffee etc and carve out new routines and ways to occupy my time but I just miss being productive.
I find myself feeling a little depressed with no friends of my own age and no family living nearby.
I'm really looking forward to my baby arriving but just feel quite lonely and disconnected from the lovely school community that I'd become a part of.
My mum died of cancer in the summer and I miss her phone calls and getting excited with her, my sister lives in France and is thirty but a perpetual teenager who makes unfathomably poor choices about men, money, friends and work so I won't being seeing her for a while In sure. My dad lives on an island miles away with a partner I've never met and my husband's parents, though lovely, are rather stiff upper lip and don't get close to people really. It's at times like this where I feel like I'm focussing on what I dont have rather than what I do what I do have which is; a lovely community in my village all excited for the birth, parents from my class who bought/ gave me so many things for baby that I couldn't get them all in my boot! Family who though distant, love me and are excited s out the baby, a very supportive husband, a lovely home, a healthy body, a healthy pregnancy, maternity pay and rights, 9 months off work ahead of me and a mums and tots group I'm about to start in my village.
Feel guilty for moaning really.
Anyone else been in this position?
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Maternity leave, feeling low adjusting to the change
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Bumbleclat · 09/12/2016 05:56
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