We've been told today that my partner is deploying on Friday for 3 weeks (but previous experience tells us it could quite possibly be longer). I'm currently 35 weeks and he'll be back, all being well, at 39 weeks.
We've only just moved, all my friends and family are hundreds of miles away. My MiL is round the corner and will be looking after our 2.5 year old while I give birth, whether or not my partner makes it home in time. There's no one else at all that can have her.
I'd prefer a hospital birth just because I feel safer there with all the lovely drugs, but if the baby decides he's making an early appearance I'll be doing it alone. If I have a home birth then there's always the option of MiL being here. She's lovely, we get on well but I'm not particularly comfortable with the idea of having her as a birth partner, or my DD around to see me in pain or be denied my attention.
Has anyone delivered with just hospital staff? Or know anyone who has? The thought makes me want to cry, I don't want to do it alone but I might have to.
I'm so sad at this surprise deployment and my head is in a muddle, I just don't know what plan is for the best.
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Anyone ever given birth with just midwives, no partner or family?
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NK7995a1caX11eb0ed0bae · 06/09/2016 20:16
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