I shall try and keep this short
31+3 weeks, early on in pregnancy myself and partner discussed labour, and he's quite a quiet/nervous chap, I ended up in hospital a couple times with sickness and on one occasion he looked so petrified for me I was really worried for him more so, so I mentioned the idea of a 2nd birthday partner - namely one of my sisters - who has children, is quite upbeat and I thought would be good at reassuring him and keeping him sane when anything a bit scary starts and at same time, keep us both motivated and going.
He was happy with this, they get on well.
Today, he's been pub with his mate and I popped in (for a coke!) at the end, and baby was mentioned, and somehow the situation came up and he's turned around (tipsy but still clearly true feelings coming out) saying my sister doesn't like him even though he likes her and thinks she's good fun.
This is stemming from her (in a jokey/I'm the big sister/protective/non mallicious) conversation when I was first pregnant, suffering with sickness and he wasn't really helping around house, she basically said step up!
It wasn't an argument just a few comments from her, which he's obviously taken to heart and held a grudge over since.
I'm now torn, my sister is so excited, has made emergency plans for her night shifts incase I go into labour when working and has generally been really supportive, but at same time I don't want to upset my partner. Just really annoyed it's come out in tipsy conversation and now I feel stuck
WWYD?
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Dlah · 27/08/2016 17:48
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