Hi,
I am currently 23 weeks pregnant with DS2. I have got DS1, 2.10. He goes to nursery 5 days a week and will continue going for at least 3 days a week when I am on maternity leave (we have no guarantee we would get his days back if we cut it down further).
My thoughts are turning to my next lot of maternity leave. I am deeply unhappy in my current job, and I want to use this time to explore other options. But I am also thinking about the social side.
In my first leave, I was a social butterfly! Regular meetups of NCT antenatal and postnatal groups, Baby Yoga, Baby Swimming, you name it, I did it all! And I loved it! Add to this that DS1 was an easy baby (good sleeper, good eater, generally just chilled) and it was the best 8 months of my life. Despite all the activity, I still got lots of cuddle time as he just loved lying on my chest for a snooze (but I was able to put him down if I needed to).
Obviously, I don't know yet how DS2 will turn out (I hope similar in terms of sleep and cuddliness). Generally, things will be a bit different as I won't be able to have a relaxed morning... DS1 will have to be taken to nursery, and to take the pressure of DH (long commute), I'll try to do the majority of pickups as well and do dinner.
So the question is: how to fill the hours inbetween? I am thinking of limiting myself to one outing a day rather than the two I often had with DS1. However, having been home with DS1 due to chickenpox for a week during which I hardly spoke to a soul during the day, I know I'll need some adult interaction.
I don't necessarily want to do NCT though... the refresher classes all run during the day, and I am not particularly keen to take leave for them. Are there any other refresher antenatal groups you can recommend? Generally, any other ideas?
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dodi1978 · 11/06/2016 21:02
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