Hi all,
Was wondering if any of you on here have ever been through a similar thing and if so, what the outcome was...
At 12 weeks, my partner and I went for our 12 week scan - we were unfortunately told that our baby had too much fluid at the back of the neck and were sent to the feral specialist unit in London for a further scan. We discovered that the baby had a NT of 7.8mm and also had fluid around the abdomen and brain. Naturally we were devastated and all of a sudden had so many decisions to make. We were told that the chances of me having a mc were extremely high and that I would most likely pass the baby before 16 weeks. They offered an amniocentesis but we turned this down - even if we discovered that something was wrong with our baby, we knew we would be committed and continue with the pregnancy anyway. We were also adverse to heightening the risk of miscarriage. We were offered termination which we declined. We were told that even if the baby did survive then there would be a really strong possibility that a) the baby would not survive b) the baby would have a severe genetic condition. Anyway, we came to sixteen weeks and no miscarriage. We went back to the specialist unit for a further scan and were told that the NT had decreased to 6.6mm and the fluid on the abdomen and brain had completely gone. Again, we were offered an amniocentesis but declined. We are now at 22 weeks and at 20 weeks had our anomaly scan. The NT is now classed as the Nuchal fold and is still showing as 6.6mm. The normal size of a Nuchal fold at 20 weeks is 6mm so we are only 0.6mm off! The babies heart is fine and there are no other markers of any form of genetic condition. We also found out that we are carrying a little girl. We were really happy with this news and because there are no other markers, we did not feel the need to carry out the invasive tests. We have now decided to continue the pregnancy as normal and have left whatever will happen to chance. My oh is naturally really happy but I can't help but feel there is still a small chance things could go wrong and it is ruining my whole pregnancy. I have been signed off of work with depression and anxiety and am trying my hardest to be positive for my little girl. I feel like I am just waiting for the outcome and not knowing is driving me crazy. I sometimes wish we had the amniocentesis but also realise that there is a small chance the outcome could be completely different if we had done as there is a risk of mc associated with the invasive tests anyway. Just wanted to know if any of you ladies had come across this before and if so then was everything okay and how did you cope?
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High Nuchal translucency/Nuchal fold
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Liv111 · 29/04/2016 20:19
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