Hi All,
I'm not sure of the best place to put this thread. My daughter is 15 months old, and I had a traumatic birth with her and a 7 day stay in hospital after she was born.
The problem with my traumatic birth is that a lot of the things that went wrong were cock ups and miscommunication on the hospital's behalf, resulting in me not having the birth I wanted (but could have had had things been done properly) and not given proper care.
I've had a debrief with midwives where fault was admitted on a number of points and I was sent a detailed report on the whole birth and what they have taken away from it.
From the moment my daughter was born myself and my partner were adamant we would never do it again. It was all just too much for us... and despite the debrief I still struggle with the events due to them not being unavoidable... as well as unavoidable situations such as 4th degree tears and ending up in theatre..etc. And lots of inconsistencies after my daughter was born.
My partner plays with the idea of having another... and If I am honest with myself before this all happened I did want more than one.
I'm just trying to look for other ladies who went onto have another child after a traumatic birth, and asking if they may share their experiences?
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Birth Trauma and wanting a second child..?
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ThePebbleCollector · 06/04/2016 12:20
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