I have a baby just turned a year and I've found myself unexpectedly pregnant! Really unexpectedly! I'm 43 so tbh DP and I didn't think for a moment we would conceive by doing the deed once in a month and outside of that window, or so we thought! Stupid I know. Dr told me she sees women in their 40's who have made that mistake all the time. Financially we're having a really tough time, the worst we've ever experienced. I've always been the higher earner out of the two of us and my contract ended when i took maternity leave so we've lived on his earnings and my savings for the last year, my savings have almost run out now so I'm frantically job hunting at the moment. DP is self employed and has had 4 terrible months (again!), made a loss each month despite working his nuts off! This is a whole other topic!
I'm now 8 weeks, DP feels we can't afford another baby and wants to head down the termination route. I feel it will be tough but things will pick up and you can't terminate a pregnancy for financial reasons especially at our ages as it will possibly be our last chance. Our first child took 2 years and one mc to get here. What if we're in a much better financial position in a years time? Would we regret it?
I just want to know what other people would do and if you can give me a different perspective as can't tell anyone in real life.
Thank you x
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Needtochangenameforthis · 27/02/2016 10:29
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