Hello ladies,
I'm currently 41 weeks with my DS1 and booked in for a sweep tomorrow & induction on Friday. I really hope i go into labour naturally before Friday as I'm not keen on induction and the main reason being the anxiety I'll feel about my husband not being allowed to be with me the entire time. The visiting hours on the ward are 10-8pm with an hour a half away for lunch and an hour for dinner where they are not allowed to stay. Never did I expect to go through even one contraction without my husband and I think it's traumatic enough as a woman that you take care and worry every day up until this estimated due date and then when you past it, you are just expected to get in a ward with strangers and progress to half way before they will even consider taking you to the delivery room. This is the only thing that has properly shaken me throughout pregnancy and its taking away the excitement I felt about seeing my little boy. My friend got induced a few years ago and it was very slow to start, then before they knew it she had progressed rapidly and her partner missed the birth. IMO this contributed to her post natal depression as she was so devastated with how it ended and the fact the midwives didn't listen when she said she needs to go to labour suite and have her husbands support. I'm usually really assertive and positive but with this I just don't know what to do and if I can do anything or what I can request. Never seen the same midwife twice throughout so it's rubbish trying to convey any concerns at all because they just always say all pregnant ladies are in the same boat. Could I refuse induction at this stage and ask for cesearean. That way I will have a date when the baby will be here and staying in AFTER I've got my son safely by my side would not be as big a problem. Any advice would be so appreciated!
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capturedbyminipirate · 27/04/2015 10:21
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