My close friend has adamantly resisted anyone buying her anything for her first baby - due in 2 weeks. She has all the equipment she needs passed on from her brother and a few baby clothes he passed on too. She has bought nothing herself, but she is comfortable off so this isn't about not being able to afford to.
I have lots of high quality clothes in brilliant condition which I wanted to give her - petit bateau kind of stuff - but she doesn't seem to want it. She has banned her mum from buying anything at all.
I think it is nice to respect people's wishes when they are pregnant - but I do feel a bit rejected that she doesn't want anything, whether second hand or new from me, and I know it has upset her mother.
Do you think it would be good or bad to buy something as a present when the baby is born, and if so, any ideas?
She makes me feel that she doesn't want anything but I don't want to upset her by not getting anything if she actually would like a present after the birth!
I have offered babysitting and practical help . Does anyone have experience of this kind of situation?
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mousiemousie · 06/09/2006 19:50
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