Hi,
I am only 7 weeks away from our second child's due date. Up until now I have been so excited to introduce them to their big sister and have been looking forward to having 2 of them! However after today and am feeling really worried.
My sister has had her baby 3 weeks ago, and when visiting her my DD(3) has been fine. No jealousy, not minding me having cuddles, interested in baby etc. Today though they came round to ours for the first time. Well DD did not cope well, she started saying that I was her mummy, not the baby's, telling me to give her back, acting up for attention, you name it. Obviously it being in our house must have caused her to feel very jealous and insecure.
I am now so worried as to how she will be with her baby sister, and how we will cope. I have tried explaining to her that I will be mummy to both her and the new baby etc. I just feel apprehensive now and sad for her. I think I was thinking that bringing home the new baby would be lovely for her, a little playmate etc. Now I feel so sad for er, that she will have to share her mummy, that it won;t be just us 3. How do I love them both? I already love this baby, but feel so sad for our DD. How do I manage with both of them, and help my DD?
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SparklyMonkeyMummy · 20/04/2014 19:44
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