I'm 17+5 with my first pregnancy. No real bump yet, no feeling of kicking, generally feel well just very tired.
But my problem is I just can't be arsed to do anything. I'm self employed, and normally really really motivated by work. I have loads of work on at the moment (& I need the money), but I can't make myself do it. I only seem to have the concentration for very small bits and pieces, then I want to look at baby clothes or plan a nursery or daydream or eat.
I also feel like I've become really stupid and forgetful - sometimes I can't even remember which words to use.
I don't feel like I have anything in common with most of my friends - those that have kids are all married, SAHMs with a lot of money, and those that aren't are quite career driven. I used to be career driven too but these days I can't bring myself to care.
And of course, I know that it's still early days in the pregnancy and most of the time it doesn't feel real and I'm worried that something will go wrong.
Has this happened to anyone else? Any tips for staying motivated and part of the real world?
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Pregnant and unmotivated
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gertrudestein · 01/02/2013 14:51
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