hi all i'm feeling really down at the moment :( i'm 11 weeks with my second baby and i'm trying soo hard to be happy but i just feel like everyone except me and my partner are against us having another child this soon after our daughter. i don't think it is soon at all as our daughter will be 1 a week today so will be about 18 months between them but my partner's brother and his wife have been trying since may and since they found out im pregnant again we havn't heard from them as much and his brother has been quite blunt with me so i'v decided to not bother contacting him incase they need space which i fully understand as it must be hard for them but my hormones are making me very upset over the way they are being. also my partner's parents don't seem overly happy (well his dad does but not so sure bout his mum) and they keep saying how hard it will be for me a if i don't know! my parents i am telling when they come for my daughter's bday but i know they won't be happy. i'm adopted and never really had a good relationship with them and my mum was really not happy when i was pregnant with my daughter as i was 19. our daughter and this baby were planned though and i have been with my partner over 4 years now and we are engaged so it isn't like we are being stupid. my best friend is also finding it hard as she has been told she may not be able to have any more children due to health problems. i just wish people would be a bit more happy for us. i don't have many friends where i live and i can't drive. i also can't get on buses as i have an axiety problem and had a panic attack last time i attempted a bus :( i am just feeling very down right now i'm sorry for the rant just needed to get it all out x
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