Hey Chaps
Could do with some life experiences and advice to help sort my head out.
I am 28 weeks pregnant and so far I've had a really easy ride of it all.
This pregnancy wasn't planned in fact I wasn't planning on having kids. I've slowly got my head around the idea so on good days I feel mechanical, going through the motions of pregnancy and the good feelings that pregnancy brings. On bad days I think I've made a mistake. Everyone is so excited except me it seems. I've heard all the stories of feelings changing immediately after the birth so I am keeping an open mind.
I run a business with my partner and I am returning to my other job after the baby arrives so I am excited about that. It seems like everything in my life is falling into place except my relationship with my partner, which I think has run it course.
Don't get me wrong he is perfect in every way. We don't argue, we make a really good team, our sex life has died but then I take full responsibility for that as I just don't think I'm in love him any more. I love him more like a brother (or so it feels at the moment) and the last thing I want is to hurt him.
We have been together for 6 years the business we have is doing well and doesn't cause us any stress or arguments.
Am I being hormonal and experiencing "the grass is greener" syndrome? I have spent the last few days in tears over it (which I am putting down to hormones). I seem happiest when I am on my own. I might normally put all this down to pregnancy hormones but I started to doubt our relationship last year.
Has anyone been through this/left their partner after birth/stayed even though they had similar feelings?
All experiences or "twopence worth" much appreciated
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NonMilkyMum · 05/10/2010 14:44
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