My little girl has just turned 3 and started potty training a couple of months before that. She really got the hang of the wees, but like a lot of little ones has been impossible to get to poo in the potty or the toilet.
Recently she developed a sore bottom. We are not entirely sure what caused this. This resulted in the skin breaking down and becoming infected despite cleaning her immediately after soiling. We spent four weeks treating her with creams and several trips to the doctor and finally it has healed over.
However....we had to put her back in pull ups during that time as she was so sore. She was pooing regularly but in little bits meaning she needed frequent cleaning, and was getting through a phenomenal amount of pants.
She has just gone back into pants and she continues trying not to poo in the potty or toilet but will go properly as soon as she's in a pull up, like at bedtime. The difficulty is that she continues to poo in little bits and tries to hold it in, meaning that rather than one soiling, she soils several times a day and requires several clean ups. If there is even the shortest delay cleaning her as she hides away, then her skin becomes sore. We're applying metanium currently to try and protect her skin.
Does anyone have any experience of a child who is pooing in dribs and drabs in their pants, and won't use the potty or say when they need to go? This means that she has little poos stuck between her buttocks and it's not always smelly enough to alert us and we end up constantly checking her. The hv suggested blowing bubbles on the potty to persuade her to go, but that did nothing and she just sat there blowing bubbles for ages, then pooed her pants as soon as she stood up.
I'm concerned that if she continues like this her bottom will become more sore and infected again and we'll be back to square one. She was a bit sore this evening, though the skin was intact but her bottom is constantly red. She goes to a childminder during the day a couple of times a week, and with the best will in the world, she often comes home sore because she's been dirty/wet and won't say (at least I think that's what it must be). She's also very tricky about being cleaned up...
Any advice, particularly on persuading her to poo in the potty (as I'm sure this would prevent her bottom getting sore), would be MOST welcome as we're starting to lose it...Thank you.
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Another poo thread...potty/toilet refusal, little bits here and there, sore bottom, at wits end
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Whitetara · 08/10/2012 20:39
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