DS1 is 2 years and 5 months. He seemed to be showing some signs of being ready to train - dry on waking, would sit on the loo/potty at nappy changes and before bath and wee on demand, often (though not always) told us when he needed changing - so we thought we'd give it a go.
It didn't go well. The first day, when we reminded him every 20 minutes, was fine, but as soon as the novelty wore off and we started trying to get him to tell us when he needed to go he started refusing to use the potty and just went in his pants all the time. We did 4.5 days with increasing numbers of accidents and all poos in pants. Since the advice seems to be that if they haven't made any progress by day 4 they're not going to get it, on the morning of day 5 after he had wet himself for the third time 10 minutes after refusing to sit on his potty I asked him if he wanted to carry on wearing pants and he said no. So, we decided he wasn't ready and went back to nappies for a bit.
Now, however we are worse than back to square one. He will no longer sit on the potty/loo at all even though he'd been doing it happily for about 6 months. He is refusing to let us change him and worst of all has stopped telling us when he is dirty and even lies about it if you ask. He often seems to contrive to poo immediately after a nappy change so that by the time we check him again he's been sitting in it for a while and as a result has developed terrible nappy rash. We've tried reasoning with him and explaining that his bottom is sore because he won't tell us when he's dirty, and we've tried offering him a sticker if he tells us, but nothing works.
Has anyone has a similar experience? What should we do?
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wilburthewalrus · 22/10/2011 21:24
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