Just wonderin if anyone has had PND and how you knew the difference between the usual everyday potential tiredness and difficulty of parenting and actual depression? I have had depression before so not sure why am asking can but I feel so crap. Not sure why.
My DD is 7.5 months now so maybe even too late to be PND? Also have a son, 4, whose in first term of reception.
Am just struggling with it all. Constant cleaning, school runs (have to drive for 15 mins and leave v early to get through traffic as he didn't get into the local school), feeling that I'm not a good mum.
I'm quite shy and have struggled with chatting at the school gates and am worried that me not being an 'in crowd mum' will affect DS's friendships. I don't have as much time to play with and even talk to my DD as much as I did with my DS and feel that I'm dragging her everywhere, even when she's ill she has to come to school etc, I know that's true of all second DC but I still feel guilty about it.
Feel I am not playing enough, not fun enough, not cooking good enough meals, even though my whole world is the kids st the moment I feel is never enough and I just hate myself. Is this normal ish or does it sound like PND??
Thank you for any suggestions.
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PenelopeChipShop · 23/11/2016 13:19
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