My beautiful boy was born at 35 weeks and is a week old today. He's currently in scbu only has s feeding tube and been treated for jaundice so not poorly. I came home Friday and since then struggling. I have a 4 yr dd and I feel detached from her and snappy, it's not her fault and I then feel desperately guilty. My DH is trying to work as well as split visiting with me. I am trying to express by pump and only getting about 10-20ml each time, this is stressing me out! Trying to get my son to latch on when visiting then on the road to coming home. This isn't really happening. I am suffering terrible headaches most days and very tearful. My DH tries but I feel exhausted past two evenings I haven't been able to go to visit as my head has been terrible and I haven't put dd to bed in over a week. I am worrying about not being able to breastfeed especially as he is premature! People keep asking when they can visit and I am dreading people descending on us when he does come home. Is this normal expected stress or am I heading down another road?
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