My nan died yesterday,she was 92 and had become very frail in the last few weeks and said that she was tired and didnt want to be here anymore so in some ways it was a positive thing (although still desperately sad for us of course).
In the last week she has spoken of seeing her dead husband and daughter, standing at the foot of her bed.
I was with her yesterday, she had very lucid moments recalling memories and even laughing when we teased her about things. When she was able to speak she was completely with it iyswim.
In the last hour, she kept saying "oh dear, ive still got to get up those stairs yet" and I would say "no nan, you are upstairs-in your bedroom" and she would say "yes dear, I know". My uncle at one point said "Ill carry you mum" and she said "no dear, you cant".
I am not religous and altough scared of ghosts (and irrational!) had no belief in the afterlife before. Now I think I do,and I hope they were there to meet her.
Sorry if this is complete rambling but had to tell someone and people who know me in RL would think I had lost the plot!
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miggy · 06/02/2005 22:21
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