Our new set of neighbours moved in about 2 months ago. They seem very nice and are quiet but private so we do not know much about them. From the very beginning, their lovely cat started wondering into our garden and soon we became fast friends. Within the first 3 weeks of their arrival, I went over to introduce myself and also mentioned that their cat seems to have very quickly grown quite fond of us. At the time we had not fed him at all, but as we love cats, we did spend a lot of time making a fuss of him. Since those first weeks, the cat has started sleeping over and seems to spend all his time over here now. He follows me around and I've even witnessed him defending 'his territory' (my garden!) from other cats!
Then 10 days ago, we noticed he seemed very hungry (21h30 and no lights on next door so I wasn't sure if there was any food down for him) so we did give him small bite of tuna, very naughtily, but since have not fed him again. I now feel very anxious about this situation. I won't lie: I have grown fond of the cat, but am very aware he is not our pet and I know how I would feel if someone stole my pet, so I really do not want to do that to anyone else. At the same time, this cat seems to have made this his home and he is constantly around us.
I'd like to be honest with the neighbours and find out if there is anyone there actively looking after him (giving him love, engaging with him, etc), feeding him is clearly not enough. He obviously loves the fuss we make of him. What should I say to the neighbour? I am afraid of sounding like I want to steal the family pet. I obviously want to stay on the right side of the new neighbours and continue our good relationship, but more importantly I want to make sure the cat gets all the ingredients he needs to keep him happy at home. Please help!!
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do11y · 17/07/2013 21:21
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