Noticed this a fair bit recently with dd (2.9), a couple of times I've thought "fair enough" other times I've thought "keep your beak out" and one or 2 times I've been at said parent.
Also some parents seem to be fairly free and easy about having words with other peoples dcs noticed this a lot on holiday where there were a lot of toddlers, one mum in particular dishing it out left right and centre. saying that some of the other parents were being a bit oblivious to their dcs behaviour. The 2 examples that made me were
On holiday toddlers chucking soft balls around, dd threw hers over a wall, another childs Mum took her to one side and called her naughty and was quite harsh (dd told me this later on, it's unusual for her to remember and be upset by something so much later). Pissed me off for 2 reasons firstly label the behaviour NOT the child and also earlier on in the day this womans ds had pushed dd over for no reason and hit her, I wasn't botheredas such by his behaviour (it's what toddlers do) but her reaction to it, picking him up and syaing "oh dear darling are you getting tired" and giving hima cuddle!!! [shick] and . His Dad was there though and made her make him say sorry otherwise +++positive reinforcement for bad behaviour!!
Second time in restaurant waitress brought out dds food and grabbed the toy she was holding in her hand from her saying she had to put it down before she could have her food. Sorry love that's our job to organise not yours.
I only intervene when dcs are being out and out aggressive and abusive to each other what do others think? I wouldn't mind so much if it was fair but i do feel some mums in particular over look their own childs mishaps and then pile in on others, certainly by my own observations.
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minxofmancunia · 24/06/2009 12:27
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