DH was never sure if he wanted to have children, we now have 2, both under 3 (baby 6 mths).
Need I say more but life is busy, we have no family nearby and other than 2 days DC1 is in nursery a week there is no time out and even then when in nursery I have DC2 to look after. DH thinks those 2 days are a holiday for me.
DH is stressed at work and is telling me that he is stressed at home too as I keep telling him to do things! WTF!
Long story short, although he loves the kids to bits I think he resents me for having them and losing any freedom he once had and we've been fighting. The thought of having DC3 is fading very quickly and I feel so sad, but the fact is our marriage is on the verge of collapse.
Anyone else relate??
Please tells me it gets better that men do eventually realise that there is little room for selfishness with a family and will stop resenting me blah blah blah...
arrggghhhhh
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Are you less tired now your children are older or are we just doomed??
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yesterdaywasablur · 26/05/2009 16:31
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