My HV thinks I'm a fool to co sleep - it will lead to sleep problems later, she will be in my bed until she is 3 or 4 and I need to get her to fall asleep independently. (DD is currently 9 weeks). I just don't know what to do. Do I continue to co sleep? I don't really want her to sleep with me for years I was thinking in terms of a weeks/months.
So I asked her how to approach independent sleeping and she told me to allow her to cry and better to try this now rather than when she is older as it will be harder. I have tried this this evening but have given up and she is currently fast asleep in my arms. If I put her down now she will wake up and scream, I have been using a sling until now.
Just say I was to use this crying approach, apart from it being unbearable listening to your baby crying does it affect them long term?
I bet I sound like a right wimp but I don't want to be bullied into something I don't want to do
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I have a few questions following my post natal group and chat with my health visitor about co sleeping......feeling abit confused!!
McDreamy · 16/04/2009 18:41
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