Everytime my DS's go to see Grandma and Grandpa (DH's parents) my MIL gives them some kind of present. We see her at least once, usually twice a week. Mr Bubble and I have both asked her not to but she keeps doing it, not necessarily big presents but sticker books, little action figures etc. When challenged she'll say that it's not really a present, just a little thing. I think we're finally getting through, we had a family/religious festival meal tonight and she tried to say that it was 'traditional' to give children presents. Mr Bubble said that this was rubbish, that his family drop bits of culture or tradition when they don't suit and so this particular piece of tradition could also be ignored. I don't want to be mean mummy but the boys have been getting so many toys from her that they don't value anyhting. Quite often the toys are broken or discarded straight away and end up not even making it home, being left in the car. It means that DH and I can't reward them with a toy if we want to as it will just be another one to add to the pile. I asked her tonight to buy presents/toys only on birthdays etc. so that they will actually mean something and might even be appreciated.
Anyone else experienced this?
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bubble99 · 24/04/2005 23:10
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