Ok have never talked about this but have to for my own sanity. As a 7 year old i was abused by a babysitter and her boyfriend. Fast forward a good few years and I have a gorgeous 2 year old son. I thought i was over it all but i just dont have it in me to leave him with a babysitter -even friends i know and trust. As my parents never done anything about what happened to me when i told them it sticks in my throat now to leave ds with them as i cant help but feel they never stopped what happened to me so why should i trust them to care for my ds. I know thats crazy and they would never let harm come to a hair on his head but im finding it so hard.
DS is now just over 2 and i have never left him with anyone barr them or my mil. DH and i never go out together as i cant bring myself to leave ds at nights although i do feel happy leaving him with my cm during the day. Its starting to make me feel like i have serious issues and i need to start trusting people but i just cant bring myself to do it. Any advice?
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Cant leave my child with a babysitter - help
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Broodymomma · 07/04/2009 22:57
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