We're both rather control freakish, if truth be known...
We like things how we like them, we're not terribly patient people, both quite academic.
Family life (boys now 9 & 6) was a shock to us, when we realised that we couldn't control every minute detail of our children's lives.
But we still tried.
We think we've now realised that we need to try to 'chill' more for our children's sake. Stop pressing our values and ways of doing stuff on them. We worry that we have stifled their natural enthusiasm and creativity and confidence.
But how on earth can you suddenly change the type of person you are?
What started off as love and protection is in danger of becoming suffocation. But I don't knwo how to 'step back'
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DH & I think we need to become more 'relaxed' parents..... but how?
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Cornflakemum · 19/03/2009 18:59
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