We have a 2.5 year old DS and three week old DD, all is going ok but I don't seem to be able to get to grips with how to do simple tasks with the two of them, e.g. bath time, getting into the car, etc!
So far DP has been around to help so for example he baths DS while I sort out DD, etc but he's now back at work and not around at bedtimes so I need to be able to do it on my own (I've been getting my parents round to help so far but can't rely on them all the time!)
The main things seem to be:
Bath/bed time - what happens if DD starts screaming while DS is in bath? Can't leave him alone in bath to pick her up, but he gets upset and I get stressed if she is left crying.
Getting them into car - car only has two doors and have to get my whole self into car to get each of them into car seats, and have to put DD's seat in first otherwise can't get it past DS. So end up leaving DS out of car on his own with potential for him to run off into road.
Meal times - what happens if DS has tantrum and tries to get himself out of his high chair if I'm feeding DD. Can't really put DD down but need both hands to prevent DS from falling.
And then just basic things like how to stop DS from lying on DD when I go to the toilet!
I'm sure everyone else manages to do these things, I just need to get my sleep deprived head around it!
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Can someone help me get my head around the logistics of getting things done with a toddler and newborn baby??
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iwouldgoouttonight · 10/02/2009 11:00
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