Hi , my son who is 5 and in year 1 goes to a private school. It was not what I wanted, it was because he didn't get into any of the local schools in our area but got offered a school 2 miles away in special measures. I really wanted him to go to a local school as this area is full of children, got good schools (over subscribed) and he is an only child. So I wanted him to be a part of this community.
But as he didn't get in he goes to a small private school a couple of miles away. I have tried to be friendly to the other mothers and invite other kids back for tea etc. Mostly though it just hasn't happened. A couple have come but not returned the invitation and a couple have said yes but for one reason or other it hasn't happened.
I know my son is popular and happy at school so I don't think he isn't liked.
Most of the other mothers work so are busy and it is a small school so there are less kids to invite etc but still...I am getting paranoid and want to stop inviting them as I am worried it comes across as needy etc but feel I have to keep trying for my son's sake as he loves company and having people back etc.
Until he went to this school we never had this problem. In fact all the kids he sees at weekends, after school are from the time he went to preschool round here and I just wish he'd got into the local school.
do you have any advice?
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why are the other mothers so unfriendly?
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susia · 15/01/2009 10:13
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