DS1 is 4.3. he is a loving, excitable and boisterous little boy and sometimes I struggle with deciding what is acceptable behaviour and what is not and because of this I am dreading Christmas.
DS1 loves people, me is chatty, funny but generally he wants to be the centre of everyone?s attention. If our friends or family visit he wants then to play with him, read to him etc all the time and it is very very difficult to enjoy our friends company without him being at the centre of everything that is going on. In situations like this DH or I try and engage him in something else just to try and break the cycle. He is also very physical and often wants to sit on knees and this usually gets a bit rough which ends up in a warning and time out.
We were at a family lunch on Sunday and admittedly it did go on for some time as there were so many of us and on the whole he was very good but he does tend to get loud and boisterous and I just don?t seem able to find the right way to calm him down. He never hits or bites or anything like that he just clambers over people and gets a bit silly. I have tried talking to him about calming done a little, time out only works in the short term i.e. its quiet while he is one the stairs but all starts up again when he comes back in again.
I am unsure what I should or shouldn?t be doing ? am I expecting too much of him at this age. I would just love him to calm down a little and be less demanding of everyone?s attention but is it wrong to quash his exuberance?
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how to control DS1 boisterous behaviour?
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noonbear · 18/12/2008 15:18
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