This morning, like most mornings in my house it was an absolute nightmare. 4dcs to get ready, 3 lunch boxes blah, blah blah... I am used to it it is ok, exept for 1 thing. DD1 is a day dreamer, she is 9 1/2, very bright and most certainly the nicest kindest little girl I know,but she does not do the things she is told to do in the morning or does it so slowly that we have to run to school every morning.
Half way on the run to school, I realise her hair had not seen a brush and she was wearing dirty socks. I completely lost it, told her she looked like a mess and that I need her to "wake up" and start behaving like a 9yo not a baby who needs things done for them all the time (according to hert teacher, she is very independant in school, so I KNOW she can do it). She started crying and I was most unsympathetic.
After dropping the 3 DCs in school I had to go shopping with DD4 (2yo). when we finished I sat down with her and we where chatting and laghing and while doing that with her I had this going on in my head I really feel like a lousy mum at the moment and am actually dreading going to pick up DD1 from school this afternoon.I just cant get over it.
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Gorionine · 17/12/2008 11:41
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