My Dad has been very ill and not of sound mind for over ten years,and his illness is nearing its end.
The last few years have been very difficult for my mum. My sister has kept away, visited occasionally and cannot talk about what has happened.My mum is manipluative and depressed as company. i have suggested seeking help, but she does not want to, and my sister hassaid to leave her alone.
I have children, and this year we invited everyone. My mum has said she won't come as she cannot stand spending time with jolly couples. I have left the invite open, but not changed our plans.
Should I go and spend the day with my mum, away from my children? I do not want to do this, but feel very about my mum being alone, or do we cancel the plan and go to my mums, or leave things as they are?
Just need neutral opinions...if you have experience.
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tinselroundtherock · 10/12/2008 10:11
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