I've been over and over this in my head for so long, I need Mumsnet advice!!
My beautiful DD is three years old and is just starting to ask about brothers and sisters.
We had always planned to have two children but when I started a business 2.5 years ago we didn't expect it to take off as well or as quickly which has left me with very little time and little options with stopping work / taking maternity leave etc as I'm a one-man-band.
When we didn't have another child straight away we stopped talking about it but I kind of feel now that we must make a decision.
I'm so torn; the idea of leaving dd an only child, of never experiencing pregnancy or watching a baby grow again breaks my heart... but... the idea of going through morning sickness, nappies, weaning and sleepless nights again makes me break out in a cold sweat!!
Is there anyone out there with only one child who can advise me?
Anyone with two kids who had not planned on the second?
I'm so happy with our lives and our little family as it is but I feel I owe it to dd to give her a brother or sister...
So confused!!
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Lilypie · 25/06/2008 22:51
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