My childrens great uncle died this week. I have explained to them that he was very old and his body was too worn out to keep working and they have been fine so far. We are bringing him home to my aunties house where he lived, before the funeral and all the adult relatives will be viewing his body.
I am wondering what to do if the chidlren ask to view him too. I can't see much of a case for not letting them, I've seen him just after he died and he looked peacefull and not at all scary.,and I think it might reasure them that were not putting him in the ground asleep as they are a bit worried that he might need to pop out of his coffin for a drink of water, or the loo (!)
just wondered what the general feeling about lettinhg children see dead relatives was, as I'm in two minds really.
the children are 5 and 7 by the way.
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attitudes to letting children see a relatives body before burial.
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skeletonbones · 24/04/2008 17:09
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