I've posted before about the problems we're having with DS at school, basically I know he's no angel, teachers have a right time with him (as I do at home) and he currently been assessed for ADHD.
He has been like this since reception and he's now in year 2. Thing is, these days he seems to get the blame for EVERYTHING. There is a group of boys that all mess around, DS is one of them but if they all start playing up, DS is the one that gets sent out the classroom.
If he bumps into someone at playtime the teachers send him to the wall for playing rough but he often gets knocked into and ends up full of bruises and the teachers just ignore it.
I found out from another parent that at her sons open night the teacher told her that her sons bad behaviour was all down to my DS! And that he was a bad influence on all the other boys
Just before the easter holidays DS was send to the head. Apparantly all the boys on his table were singing that song ("lonely...I'm so lonely...") and DS instantly got the blame and got sent out, none of the others did. Thing is, DS doesn't even know that song, we don't listen to that kind of music so I have a hard time believing he taught the song to all the other kids and then took the lead in singing it??
And then a few weeks ago 3 of them were told off and told to stand on the wall at playtime for 5 minutes each. After 5 minutes the other 2 boys were allowed to go off and play but DS had to stay there for the entire playtime by himself.
Don't get me wrong, I KNOW he's no angel and I'm not saying he has no part in these incidents at all but why is he always getting the full blame? How can I approach this without making it seem like I'm an OTT mum?
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Is DS being victimised or am I being over-protective?
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MrsSnape · 04/04/2008 21:57
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