My dd I should add is and has always been a bit of a drama queen! But the last 6 months I would say she just seems to fly off the handle over things and wont let things go.
Its over silly things! mainly to do with her friends at school she will lay on a huge long story about how she has no friends and no one likes her but when you sit down and chat with her you come to realize that she has just fallen out with a friend, she has plenty of other friends but she will just let it eat away at her.
And at home shes terrible if things dont go to plan. Just an example tonight we were reading Anne Frank and she comes out with 'you've read that bit' I hadnt read the page in question but she carried on and on about it so in the end I stopped reading and she spent half an hour crying in her room then came down not to apologize but still to argue her case! What I think happened is she read ahead of me and then forgot but she wouldn't have that. So I just dropped it and told her to go to bed and I would read tomorrow night when shes in a better mood!
That sounds like shes a bit of a brat! but shes not in all other respects she a well-behaved, well mannered, bright young girl but she just doesn't seem to be able to handle any issues recently
She seems to get herself in a bit of a state over silly things but I worry as she also gets very down about it. The problems are obviously very real problems in her head.
On parents evening dd got a very good report but the teacher did address the fact that shes overreacting and needs to learn to keep calm and not let things get to her so its obviously not jut a problem at home.
Im not sure how to handle it. I try to put things into perspective for her and if she really carries on I will ignore it. But while that works in the short term at addressing the problem it doesn't seem to be working in the long term and Im not really sure what else to do about it.
I used to to tell her to write down her feelings if something was really getting to her but this doesn't seem to work anymore as she obviously feels the need to express it openly.
Any ideas?
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DD 8 Over reacting over EVERYTHING!
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emma57573 · 13/03/2008 23:45
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