Basically we go to a music toddler type class on a Wednesday and the first activity is playing with the instruments. DD has a huge thing for the cymbals but obviously cannot have them every week as sometimes they get picked before the bag gets round to DD. So the last two times she has missed out and had a complete meltdown. This then puts her out of sorts for the rest of the time we are there which is a huge shame as she loves going to this group. Last week I turned up late on purpose so the instrument bit would be over when we got there . I don't want to keep doing this as obviously we would like to be there for the whole group and I can't spend the next few years avoiding situations where she will potentially have a tantrum if she can't get her own way.
I tried explaining to her tonight about sharing and that somebody else might want to play with the cymbals first but she was having none of it (she is going through a huge MINE phase). So what do I do
A, Just ride the tantrum out and hope in a few weeks that she realises that she can't always have what she wants and gets over it.
B, Turn up late again and avoid the situation.
C, Buy her some cymbals of her own and hopefully she won't be so bothered about the group ones? (Not ideal really)
I know it's not a huge thing but she loves this group and I don't want her not enjoying it because she is having a mini meltdown at the beginning.
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ibroughtcake · 06/11/2007 20:08
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