Just lately my 8 year old DS seems to have a very negative view of his life and I'm finding it quite upsetting.
I'm a single parent and he see's his dad every fortnight however he does NOTHING with him at all so I try to compensate for that...when his dad had been promising him the cinema for 4 weeks in a row I ended up taking him instead, when his dad said he couldn't take him to a festival, I took him instead etc...Apart from that I always try to make sure we do lots of fun stuff, he doesn't get any less than any other kid.
Anyway I thought in order to improve our lives I would look for work, this involved me working part time (just 3 days) during the 1 week school holiday a couple of months ago, so a few days ago my DS said to me "btw, I think you was the only mum at school that didn't spend any time with her kids during that holiday" .
Last saturday we were going around toys r us and he said to me "we never get any treats or anything when we're with you", this upset me because I'm the only one that DOES buy him treats.
And a few minutes ago something was on TV which said it was important for kids to have happy memories of family life from a young age and he turned to me and said "I have no happy memories at all", when he saw that his comment upset me he apologised but I'm getting sick of it, I do my best and he just keeps throwing it back at me.
Is it his age?
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8 year old saying mean things to me all the time
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killerinme · 30/07/2007 22:25
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